Assignment #19 - Andrea Dubon - advice?

The matter of the fact is that not everyone has you as a priority, and thats fine, but if you see yourself putting more into the relationship than the other person then it's a good time to rethink your priorities. Now i'd love to say that i have a really cool backstory for hearing this or even that i was told this by someone i really respect but honestly i got this scrolling through twitter and its proven to be really useful for me so here it is,"Not everyone will give back the same energy you give them". Corny as it may be it has helped me get by some questionable people and friendships. By "energy" I don't mean your less touchy friends not being hug people the way you are cause those types of things differ between people. But if your the one who always reaches out or plans things for the group then that's when you should know things are off. Cause one thing's universal among people. silence. If they really wanted to they'd do it. If they really wanted to reach out then they'd send a text or call you. If they really wanted to hang out, they'd plan something. Frankly life's too short for half(you know the word i wanna use)butt-ed friendships, so have i left some group chats dry? yes. Have i unfollowed childhood friends? yes. Cause at the end of the day overexerting myself for people who wouldn't do the same stopped being my priority. So while twitter may still be considered a platform for watching celebrity feuds and dog videos it has provided me with some very helpful advice that for whatever reason has stuck in my head and has made my life significantly better.